
Julia (she/her)
Licensed Psychologist, PSYCHOLOOG NIP® - Compassionate and Inclusive Therapy

Psychologist Rotterdam
I create a compassionate, non-judgmental space where you can heal from mental health struggles, shame, and societal taboos—especially around relationships and sexuality—in a way that respects your unique experiences, including the impact of cultural differences, discrimination, and trauma.
How Do I Work?
In my practice, I take a humanistic approach, which means I see you as a whole person—not just a diagnosis or a list of symptoms. You are complex and may carry many different, even conflicting parts of yourself, and that’s completely okay. Unlike systems that often focus on what’s “wrong,” I aim to create a safe, compassionate space where you can explore your experiences without judgment.
My work is attachment-based and trauma-informed, with a focus on Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for individuals. This approach is especially helpful for addressing trauma, attachment wounds, anxiety, and depression. While EFT is a central framework in my practice, I believe in an integrative method, blending various evidence-based techniques that are tailored to fit your unique needs.
Together, we’ll uncover the roots of your struggles, work through shame, and cultivate self-compassion, while also highlighting your strengths and potential for growth. In our intake session, we’ll talk through your goals and desires, and I’ll create a personalized treatment plan tailored to you. This plan is flexible and can be adjusted whenever you wish, as your feedback is always welcome.
About me
Originally from Germany, I've spent the past eight years living in various countries, with over five years in the Netherlands. My experiences living abroad, coupled with growing up with deaf parents and being part of the queer community, have sensitized me to discrimination of minority groups and cultural adaptation challenges. I'm deeply committed to helping you navigate mental health struggles such as anxiety, depression or trauma. Additionally, my passion exploring sexuality and relationships drives me to empower clients to gain confidence, learn about their desires and build healthy connections.
Drawing from personal experience with cross-cultural relationships and ethical non-monogamy, I prioritize open communication and mutual understanding in therapy sessions. In our sessions, you can expect a non-judgmental space to freely discuss mental health struggles, relationships, sexuality, identity crisis, cultural differences, and personal growth. Together, we'll work towards building stronger connections, embracing diversity, and rediscovering joy in your life.
Focus areas: mental health, trauma, cross-cultural differences, expat life, sexuality, relationships, ethical non-monogamy, LGBTQIA+ identities, people with disabilities
Languages: English, German, German Sign Language, Nederlands (B2-Level)
You are unsure whether to start therapy or have questions?
Contact me via the Send a message button above or below for a free 15-minute consultation!
Please note that I currently have a waiting list of approximately two months (can vary depending on who is still interested by then and if clients decide to terminate therapy). This information is subject to change, please do not hesitate to contact me for the most updated information.
Online therapy
Qualifications and registrations
Education & Training
-
Master of Science in Clinical Psychology, Leiden University
-
Bachelor of Science in Psychology, Leiden University
- Training in Emotionally Focused Therapy for individuals (EFIT) by ICEEFT Level 1&2
-
Ongoing intervision and supervision with experienced psychologists
Affiliations
-
Licensed Psychologist registered with the Nederlands Instituut voor Psychologen, PSYCHOLOOG NIP® number: 246831
Registrations
Ik bied therapie aan in
Therapievormen
- ACT therapie
- Cognitieve gedragstherapie
- Counselling
- Deutschsprachige Therapie
- EFT-therapie
- English speaking therapy
- Integratieve psychotherapie
- Meditatie
- Mindfulness
- Psycholoog
- Therapie
- Traumatherapie
Behandeling van
- ADHD
- Angsten
- Bindingsangst
- Burnout
- Codependency
- Communicatieproblemen
- Depressieve gevoelens
- Eenzaamheid
- Faalangst
- Grenzen aangeven
- Jaloezie
- Laag zelfbeeld
- Liefdesverdriet
- Midlife crisis
- Negatief zelfbeeld
- Neurodiversiteit
- Niet lekker in je vel zitten
- Onrust
- Onzekerheid
- Opvoedingsproblemen
- Overspannen
- Paniekaanval
- Perfectionisme
- Persoonlijke ontwikkeling
- Posttraumatische stressstoornis
- Problemen met sociaal contact
- Psychosomatische klachten
- Relatieproblemen
- Relatieverslaving
- Seksuele problemen
- Sociale angst
- Stemmingswisselingen
- Stress en spanning
- Traumaverwerking
- Zingeving
Photos


Tips posted by Julia (she/her):
- Forum | Tip
- Angsten | Panic Attacks - Grounding Exercise
- Angsten | Emotional Pain & the Fear of Feeling
- Angsten | Confidence follows action - not the other way around
- Burnout | 7 Types of Rest
- Communicatie | Non-Violent Communication (NVC) – 4 Steps to Clear & Respectful Dialogue
- Jaloezie | Dealing with Jealousy
- Relatieproblemen | Making it about you rather than attacking your partner
- Relatieproblemen | How to initiate a conversation about sex
- Relatieproblemen | Turning Towards Bids for Connection (Gottman Method)
- Relatieproblemen | How Childhood Attachment Affects our Relationships Today
- Trauma | Healing from Parentification: Learning it's okay to be cared for
- Trauma | Breaking free from familiar but unhealthy patterns in relationships.
- Gelukkig zijn | Rethink “I Just Want to Be Happy”
- Grenzen aangeven | Self-Check-In to Practice Setting Boundaries