reassure rather than convince

Emotional safety is one of the most important things in a relationship. For both of you.

Often we try to convince our partners of our point.
If your partner does not feel that safety, they will defend themselves, withdraw and/or lash out, no matter how clever/right you are.

So, if you want to be able to create that safety and with that a real connection, ask yourself: how can I open up and show my vulnerable side?

This will create connection and reassure your partner.

Difficult? Questions about this? Could you use some help with this? Do contact me. Let's talk.
Jolanda